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Why did I ever complain ?

Do you ever look back at a season in you’re life and think; “why did I worry so much?!? Why did I even care about that??”

A mum pregnant with #3 asked me yesterday how it was with 4 kids as she was considering it in the future??? I thought straight away to how it’s fine, it’s great, it’s busy but it’s awesome! I thought in the back of my mind that the question of the season right now is how is it to have your house burn down, be homeless and depending on everyone around you with 4 kids?!? Now that isn’t easy, THAT i wouldn’t recommend 🤣🤷🏼‍♀️🙈

Gosh why did I even complain when having 4 kids was hard only a few months ago?!? Why did I obsess over gaining a few too many kgs throughout my pregnancies? Why did I forever wish that I was thinner as a teenager? Why did I pray that boys would like me more than a friend in my “Tom boy” days? Why did I want more stuff? Why did I want new stuff? Why did I even care about any of this stuff at all?!? When I felt like I had hit somewhat of a low months ago; overweight and completely at the end of my tether with 4 kids, my sister and I laughed and she said; “you just have to hit rock bottom” and I said back; “ I think I’m already there aren’t I?!?”

And then 💥 BOOM… my house goes up in flames and our insurance company tells us our insurance isn’t valid. So as we do our best to fight that factor, what do you think?!? Is this rock bottom? Things have to go up from here right?!? 🤣🤣🤣 gosh we must laugh at this whole situation because otherwise it’s tears… it’s been a month now and it still feels like it happened yesterday. Life goes on and it’s all relative… shit happens to everyone BUT I only hope that we can inspire each other to keep going…there is never a perfect time for anything…have the extra baby if it’s in the back of your mind! Book the girls weekend away if you’ve been thinking about doing it! Live in the moment more! Give more hugs! Tell your loved ones you love them! Have no regrets! And let’s just all try not to worry so much about the trivial things in life, we are all ok and if we’re not, we will be with the right support! Don’t be afraid to ask for help! Let’s do this life together!💪🏼


June 12, 2019
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